This note was placed outside my door this week by a "friendly" mystery neighbor. Apparently they don't like that I put my trash outside my doors sometimes for a few hours before Charles comes home to take it out. I guess I should load all three kids up and walk it to the dumpsters across the complex several times a day. NOT.
I wish I would have taken a picture of what I wrote back. I wrote over it...
"Sorry, my bad" -Mom & three kids
My friend Lindsey Carson [who is an incredibly hilarious writer] is having a contest on
her blog about "keeping it real" and showing pictures of our "
hot mess houses".
I use to be a clean freak, but...then I had kids and now I'm satisfied keeping my house [at least] picked up. If I only have time for two chores a day I always focus on laundry & dishes. I feel accomplished knowing I did a load of laundry and there are no dishes in the sink when my head hits the pillow.
I saw all this to say, I typically only deep clean every three weeks when my midwife visits for my prenatals, but in between pregnancies [ha ha] I typically deep clean only if someone is coming over.
Thus, I like to invite people over often...to motivate me. Today, my mom drove 8 hours from GA with my brothers to come visit us in OH. So, I let my house go this week, until today when I cleaned it sparkly.
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dishes for one day
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part of playroom
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i'm not use to vacuuming [hardwoods at home], and i don't really see the point of vacuuming under the table when the next meal will look just like this again
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yes, i do leave the play-doh until the next vacuum
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bad picture, but you get the point, stains on floor
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sometimes you break glass & spill pepper,
but just walk around on it because you're nursing & making dinner
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i know this yellow ring is gross, but i have 3 guys using it...so it's reality |
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because i was deep cleaning, the laundry got washed, but not folded |
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so i "hid it" in my room |
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told you i clean up well
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can you smell the cleaning products?
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I was wondering if you were going to enter :)
ReplyDeleteyou let your baby crawl around in broken glass and pepper? haha jk ;)
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely "neighbor."
ReplyDeleteRude azz.
love this candra!
ReplyDeleteI'm not alone...Thanks Candra!! But mine is due to 6 kids so it's probably 2x's yours!!
ReplyDeleteI keep telling myself it gets better as they get older, but now that they are 14, 11, 9, 6, 4, and 2, I haven't really seen any improvement!
I love your BLOG! When I saw the sticky note it reminded me of once again our college days...heaven forbid a sticky note! Anyways...You did a great job of communicating...like they did :-) And Props on Cleaning up :-) But you are right..KEEP IT REAL...really it is not going to hurt anyone if you don't pick something up if it will get on the floor again in a matter of hours!
ReplyDeletethanks tcup---i was thinking of you "keepin it real"
ReplyDeleteLove your blog! I've been MIA from Facebook lately (studying for GRE), but love to catch your blog when I can. Love the "My Hot Mess of a House," which I will forward to my MOPS friends -- We had this discussion over-and-over at MOPS last year. I think that most moms put on this "martyr mom" face, thinking that their houses must be perfect 24/7, not realizing that 1) no one is perfect; no one's house is completely-free of clutter/dirty laundry/strewn-about toys 2) you can miss-out on the fun stuff with your kids, while worrying too much over how clean your hardwood floors are .... 3) does it really matter?
ReplyDeleteKeep it real, Candra! : )
Natalie S
oh no, Sjapr14, please tell me it gets easier [covering my ears and not listening to you tell me it won't] ha ha i know, more kids, more mess and teenagers....ahhhhhhh i'm already scared
ReplyDeleteIsn't it crazy how our cleaning habits change with the arrival of kids? I just keep reminding myself that someday they will be grown and then I will have plenty of time for a squeaky clean house!!!
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by my blog. Your sunflower pictures are great too :)
mcgowanmonkeys.blogspot.com
Ah, you are so REAL! I love you!
ReplyDeleteMy house looks like that at this very moment. And here I am. Blogging. Do I feel guilty? Nope.
And hello passive aggressive. Gotta love people like that. Sheesh.
thanks Jess...don't feel guilty...our job is never over...we just have to take occasional breaks ; )
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